We at St. Stephens want to express our sympathy at the loss
of your loved one. Our faith reminds us that our Lord is the God of all
consolation! He comforts us in all our afflictions and enables us to
comfort those who grieve with the same consolation we have received from
him. May our compassionate Lord be with you in a special way during this
time of grief.
The Church through its funeral rites commends the dead to
God’s merciful love. During our funeral rites, especially at the
celebration of the Eucharistic sacrifice, the Christian community affirms
and expresses the union of the Church on earth with the Church in heaven
in the one great communion of saints. The celebration of the Christian
funeral brings hope and consolation to the living. While proclaiming the
Gospel of Jesus Christ and witnessing to Christian hope in the
resurrection, the funeral rites also recall to all who take part in them
God’s mercy and judgment and meet the human need to turn always to God in
times of crisis.
The Order of Christian Funerals is divided into
three groups of rites that correspond in general to the three principal
ritual moments in the funerals of Christians: Vigil, Funeral Liturgy,
and Rite of Committal. It is the Catholic Church’s preference
that the funeral Mass be celebrated with the body of the deceased present.
It may either be buried or cremated after the funeral Mass. In the event
that cremation occurs first, the cremated remains may be brought to the
church for the funeral Mass. If neither the body nor the cremated remains
are present, a Memorial Mass may be celebrated.
The Vigil. The Vigil for the
deceased is the principal rite celebrated by the Christian community in
the time following death and before the funeral liturgy, or if there is no
funeral liturgy, before the rite of committal. The vigil, normally
celebrated in the funeral home, may be celebrated in the home of the
deceased or in the church.
The vigil is normally celebrated the evening before the
Funeral Liturgy and is a time for prayer and remembrances by family
and friends. This is the most opportune time for eulogies and sharing
stories of the deceased. Traditional prayers during the Vigil
include the rosary and the Lord’s Prayer.
The Funeral Liturgy. The Funeral
Liturgy is the central liturgical celebration of the Christian community
for the deceased. We celebrate the funeral liturgy as either a Funeral
Mass or Funeral Liturgy outside Mass with the major differences
being the Liturgy of the Eucharist and the Mass is celebrated in
either the church or chapel.
Family members are encouraged to assist in the readings and
song selection. We have a list of songs, sacred scripture and Funeral
Planning Worksheet to assist the family with that planning. St.
Stephens will also prepare the worship aid for the Funeral Liturgy.
It is most helpful if the family can provide the church with an estimate
of the number of copies needed.
The Funeral Liturgy consists of
the gathering of the faithful and receiving the casket (urn) of the
deceased. The family and the deceased are normally greeted at the church
entrance and then proceed into the church for the liturgy. The liturgy
consists of: Introductory Rites, Liturgy of the Word, (Liturgy of the
Eucharist), Final Commendation and Procession to the Place of Committal.
Eulogies are not a part of our Catholic Funeral Liturgy and are best
expressed at either the vigil service or during a gathering (luncheon)
after the rite of committal.
The parish will assist the family in arranging for the
organist and cantor. For your information, those providing music for
funeral liturgies do not receive payment from the church. The only
remuneration they receive for their services come from the family. The
standard fee for organist/pianist is $75; the standard fee for cantor is
$50. As a convenience, these fees are normally included in the funeral
home fee, and are customarily paid on the day of the funeral. The parish
also accepts memorial gifts in memory of the deceased. If desired, the
donor may specify the purpose for the gift. A gift may also be given to
the priest.
The Rite of Committal. The Rite
of Committal is normally conducted immediately following the funeral
liturgy. The rite consists of: The Prayer over the Place of Committal,
Committal, Lord’s Prayer and Prayer for the People. The rite usually takes
about fifteen minutes. If the body is cremated, the Church’s expectation
is that the cremated remains will be interred in the ground or in a
columbarium (niche).
Console One Another.
St. Stephens warmly extends the use of several of our classrooms if family
and friends would like to regather after the rite of committal for a
post-funeral luncheon. Please let us know if you would like the use of
several classrooms by contacting the parish office at 919-776-1532. The
following is a list of local vendors who can provide cold cuts,
sandwiches, etc. All vendors require 48-72 hours notice.
1. Ron’s
Barn (919-774-8143): BBQ and Chicken plate with 2 vegetables, bread
and beverage-$7.25 per person plus tax.
2.
Elizabeth’s (919-774-6539): Meal choices: Spaghetti, Lasagna or
Eggplant Parmigiana -- $7.00 per person plus tax. Chicken -$10.10 per
person plus tax. All meals include salad and roll. Drinks are $5.00 per
gallon.
3. Chef
Paul’s (919-774-1221): Will work with the family on menu and price.
4. Flame
Restaurant (919-776-7111): Will work with the family on menu and
price.
Saint Stephen’s Cemetery.
Please contact the parish administrator if you wish to purchase an
internment right (plot) at the St. Stephen’s cemetery. In this day and age
we realize that many of our deceased have already purchased family plots
elsewhere and that the Rite of Committal will take place at another
time and at a distant location. Please contact the parish at the location
of internment to assist in the rite of committal.
With Those Who Mourn. We hope
this brochure is of assistance during your time of grief.
Risen Lord, pattern of our life for ever: bring us safely
home.
Sincerely in Christ,
The pastor and parish staff of St. Stephens
To assist in the funeral liturgy planning for both immediate and
future concerns we are including
1.
A list of Old and New Testament readings (pages 3-14)
2.
Liturgy Planning Worksheet for the Vigil, Funeral Liturgy and Rite of
Committal (page 14)
3.
Music Planning Guide (page 15)
READINGS AND GOSPELS
To assist you in the funeral liturgy
planning for both immediate and future concerns we are including
1. A list of Old and New Testament readings
(pages 3-13)
2. Liturgy Planning Worksheet for the Vigil,
Funeral Liturgy and Rite of Committal (page 14)
3. Music Planning Guide (page 15)
Old Testament Readings
OT ONE ~ 2 Maccabees 12:43-46
Judas,
the ruler of Israel, then took up a collection among all his soldiers,
amounting to two thousand silver drachmas, which he sent to Jerusalem to
provide for an expiatory sacrifice. In doing this he acted in a very
excellent and noble way, inasmuch as he had the resurrection of the dead
in view; for if he were not expecting the fallen to rise again, it would
have been useless and foolish to pray for them in death. But if he did
this with a view to the splendid reward that awaits those who had gone to
rest in godliness, it was a holy and pious thought. Thus he made atonement
for the dead that they might be freed from this sin.
†
OT TWO ~ Job 19:1, 23-27
Job answered Bildad the Shuhite and
said:
Oh, would that my words were written down! Would that they
were inscribed in a record: That with an iron chisel and with lead they
were cut in the rock forever! But as for me, I know that my Vindicator
lives, and that he will at last stand forth upon the dust; Whom I myself
shall see: my own eyes, not another's, shall behold him, and from my flesh
I shall see God; my inmost being is consumed with longing.
†
OT
THREE ~ Wisdom 3:1-9
The souls of the just are in the hand of God, and no
torment shall touch them. They seemed, in the view of the foolish, to be
dead; and their passing away was thought an affliction and their going
forth from us, utter destruction. But they are in peace.
For if before men, indeed, they be punished, yet is their
hope full of immortality; chastised a little, they shall be greatly
blessed, because God tried them and found them worthy of himself. As gold
in the furnace, he proved them, and as sacrificial offerings he took them
to himself.
In the time of their visitation they shall shine, and shall
dart about as sparks through stubble; they shall judge nations and rule
over peoples, and the Lord shall be their King forever.
Those who trust in him shall understand truth, and the
faithful shall abide with him in love: Because grace and mercy are with
his holy ones and his care is with his elect.
†
OT
FOUR ~ Wisdom 4:7-15
The just man, though he die early, shall be at rest. For
the age that is honorable comes not with the passing of time, nor
can it be measured in terms of years. Rather, understanding is the hoary
crown for men, and an unsullied life, the attainment of old age.
He who pleased God was loved; he who lived among sinners
was transported. Snatched away, lest wickedness pervert his mind or deceit
beguile his soul; for the witchery of paltry things obscures what is right
and the whirl of desire transforms the innocent mind.
Having become perfect in a short while, he reached the
fullness of a long career; for his soul was pleasing to the Lord,
therefore he sped him out of the midst of wickedness. But the people saw
and did not understand, nor did they take this into account. Because grace
and mercy are with his holy ones and his care is with his elect.
†
OT FIVE ~ Isaiah 25:6, 7-9
On this mountain the Lord of hosts will provide for all
peoples. On this mountain he will destroy the veil that veils all peoples,
the web that is woven over all nations; he will destroy death forever. The
Lord God will wipe away the tears from all faces; the reproach of his
people he will remove from the whole earth; for the Lord has spoken.
On that day it will be said: "Behold our God to whom we
looked to save us! This is the Lord for whom we looked; let us rejoice and
be glad that he has saved us!"
†
OT SIX ~
Lamentations 3:17-26
My soul is deprived of peace, I have forgotten what
happiness is; I tell myself my future is lost, all that I hoped for from
the Lord.
The thought of my homeless poverty is wormwood
and gall; remembering it over and over
leaves my
soul downcast within me. But I will call this to mind, as my reason to
have hope:
The favors of the Lord are not exhausted, his mercies are
not spent; they are renewed each morning, so great is his faithfulness. My
portion is the Lord, says my soul; therefore will I hope in him.
Good is the Lord to one, who waits for him, to the soul
that seeks him; It is good to hope in silence for the saving help of the
Lord.
†
OT
SEVEN ~ Daniel 12:1-3
In those days, I, Daniel, mourned and heard this word of
the Lord:
At that time there shall arise Michael, the great prince,
guardian of your people; it shall be a time unsurpassed in distress since
nations began until that time. At that time your people shall escape,
everyone who is found written in the book.
Many of those who sleep in the dust of the
earth shall awake; some shall live forever, others shall be an everlasting
horror and disgrace. But the wise shall shine brightly like the splendor
of the firmament, and those who lead the many to justice shall be like the
stars forever.
†
New Testament Readings -- Reading One
during the Easter Season Only
Easter
NT ONE ~ Acts 10:34-43
Peter
proceeded to speak, saying: "In truth, I see that God shows no partiality.
Rather, in every nation whoever fears him and acts uprightly is acceptable
to him. You know the word that he sent to the children of Israel as he
proclaimed peace through Jesus Christ, who is Lord of all, what has
happened all over Judea, beginning in Galilee after the baptism that John
preached, how God anointed Jesus of Nazareth with the holy Spirit
and power. He went about doing good and healing all those oppressed by the
devil, for God was with him. We are witnesses of all that he did both in
the country of the Jews and in Jerusalem. They put him to death by hanging
him on a tree. This man God raised on the third day and granted
that he be visible, not to all the people, but to us, the witnesses chosen
by God in advance, who ate and drank with him after he rose from the dead.
He commissioned us to preach to the people and testify that he is the one
appointed by God as judge of the living and the dead. To him all the
prophets bear witness, that everyone who believes in him will receive
forgiveness of sins through his name."
†
Easter NT TWO ~ Revelation 14:13
I John, heard a voice from heaven say, “Write this: Blessed
are the dead who die in the Lord from now on.”
"Yes," said the Spirit, "let them find rest from their
labors, for their works accompany them."
Easter NT THREE ~ Revelation 20:11
– 21:1
I, John, saw a large white throne and the one who was
sitting on it. The earth and the sky fled from his presence and there was
no place for them. I saw the dead, the great and the lowly, standing
before the throne, and scrolls were opened. Then another scroll was
opened, the book of life. The dead were judged according to their deeds,
by what was written in the scrolls. The sea gave up its dead; then Death
and Hades gave up their dead. All the dead were judged according to their
deeds. Then Death and Hades were thrown into the pool of fire. (This pool
of fire is the second death.) Anyone whose name was not found written in
the book of life was thrown into the pool of fire.
Then I saw a new heaven and a new earth. The former heaven
and the former earth had passed away, and the sea was no more.
†
Easter NT
FOUR ~ Revelation 21:1-5a, 6b-7
I, John, saw a new heaven and a new earth. The former
heaven and the former earth had passed away, and the sea was no more. I
also saw the holy city, a new Jerusalem, coming down out of heaven from
God, prepared as a bride adorned for her husband. I heard a loud voice
from the throne, saying, "Behold, God’s dwelling is with the human race.
He will dwell with them and they will be his people and God himself will
always be with them as their God. He will wipe every tear from their eyes,
and there shall be no more death or mourning, wailing or pain, for the old
order has passed away.”
The One
who sat on the throne said; "Behold, I make all things new. I am the Alpha
and the Omega, the beginning and the end. To the thirsty I will give a
gift from the spring of life giving water. The victor will inherit these
gifts, and I shall be his God, and he will be my son."
†
NT ONE ~ Romans 5:5-11
Brothers and sisters: Hope does not disappoint, because the
love of God has been poured out into our hearts through the Holy Spirit
who has been given to us. For Christ, while we were still helpless, died
at the appointed time for the ungodly. Indeed, only with difficulty does
one die for a just person, though perhaps for a good person one might even
find courage to die. But God proves his love for us in that while we were
still sinners Christ died for us. How much more then, since we are now
justified by his Blood, will we be saved through him from the wrath.
Indeed, if, while we were enemies, we were reconciled to God through the
death of his Son, how much more, once reconciled, will we be saved by his
life. Not only that, but we also boast of God through our Lord Jesus
Christ, through whom we have now received reconciliation.
†
NT TWO ~
Romans 5:17-21
Brothers and sisters: If, by the transgression of
the one, death came to reign through that one, how much more will those
who receive the abundance of grace and of the gift of justification come
to reign in life through the one person Jesus Christ.
In conclusion, just as through one transgression
condemnation came upon all, so, through one righteous act,
acquittal and life came to all. For just as through disobedience of one
man the many were made sinners, so through the obedience of the one the
many will be made righteous. The law entered in so that transgression
might increase but, where sin increased, grace overflowed all the more, so
that, as sin reigned in death, grace also might reign through
justification for eternal life through Jesus Christ our Lord.
†
NT THREE ~
Romans 6:3-9
Brothers and sisters: Are you unaware that we who were
baptized into Christ Jesus were baptized into his death? We were indeed
buried with him through baptism into death, so that, just as Christ was
raised from the dead by the glory of the Father, we too might live in
newness of life.
For if we have grown into union with him through a death
like his; we shall also be united with him in the resurrection. We know
that our old self was crucified with him, so that our sinful body might be
done away with, that we might no longer be in slavery to sin. For a dead
person has been absolved from sin. If, then, we have died with Christ, we
believe that we shall also live with him. We know that Christ, raised from
the dead, dies no more; death no longer has power over him.
†
NT FOUR ~
Romans 8:14-23
Brothers and sisters: Those who are 1ed by the Spirit of
God, are sons of God. For you did not receive a spirit of slavery to fall
back into fear, but you received a spirit of adoption, through which we
cry, “Abba, Father!” The Spirit itself bears witness with our
spirit that we are children of God, and if children, then heirs, heirs of
God and joint heirs with Christ, if only we suffer with him so that we may
also be glorified with him.
I consider that the sufferings of this present time are as
nothing compared with the glory to be revealed for us. For creation awaits
with eager expectation the revelation of the children of God; for creation
was made subject to futility, not of its own accord but because of the one
who subjected it, in hope that creation itself would be set free from
slavery to
corruption and share in the glorious freedom of the children of God. We
know that all creation is groaning in labor pains even until now; and not
only that, but we ourselves, who have the first fruits of the Spirit, we
also groan within ourselves as we wait for adoption, the redemption of our
bodies.
†
NT FIVE ~ Romans 8:31b-35, 37-39
Brothers and sisters: If God is for us, who can be
against us? He did not spare his own Son but handed him over for us all,
will he not also give us everything else along with him? Who will bring a
charge against God’s chosen ones? It is God who acquits us. Who will
condemn? It is Christ Jesus who died, rather, was raised, who also is at
the right hand of God, who indeed intercedes for us.
What will separate us from the love of Christ? Will
anguish, or distress or persecution, or famine, or nakedness, or peril, or
the sword?
No, in all these things we conquer overwhelmingly through
him who loved us. For I am convinced that neither death, nor life, nor
angels, nor principalities, nor present things, nor future things, nor
powers, nor height, nor depth, nor any other creature will be able to
separate us from the love of God in Christ Jesus our Lord.
†
NT SIX ~
Romans 14:7-9, 10c-12
Brothers
and sisters: No one lives for oneself, and no one dies for oneself. For if
we live, we live for the Lord, and if we die, we die for the Lord; so
then, whether we live or die, we are the Lord’s. For this is why Christ
died and came to life, that he might be Lord of both the dead and the
living. Why then do you judge your brother? Or you, why do you look down
on your brother? For we shall all stand before the judgment seat of God;
for it is written: “As I live, says the Lord, every knee shall bend before
me, and every tongue shall give praise to God." So then each of us shall
give an accounting of himself to God.
†
NT SEVEN ~ 1 Corinthians 15:20-28
Brothers and sisters: Christ has been raised from the dead,
the first fruits of those who have fallen asleep. For since death came
through a man, the resurrection of the dead came also through a man. For
just as in Adam all die, so too in Christ shall all be brought to
life, but each one in proper order: Christ the first fruits; then, at his
coming, those who belong to Christ; then comes the end, when he hands over
the Kingdom to his God and Father. For he must reign until he has put all
his enemies under his feet. The last enemy to be destroyed is death, for
"he subjected everything under his feet." But when it says that everything
has been subjected, it is clear that it excludes the one who subjected
everything to him. When everything is subjected to him, then the Son
himself will also be subjected to the one who subjected everything to him,
so that God may be all in all.
†
NT
EIGHT ~ 1 Corinthians 15:51-5
Brothers and sisters: Behold, I tell you a mystery. We
shall not all fall asleep, but we will all be changed, in an instant, in
the blink of an eye, at the last trumpet. For the trumpet will sound, the
dead will be raised incorruptible, and we shall be changed. For that which
is corruptible must clothe itself with incorruptibility, and that which is
mortal must clothe itself with immortality. And when that which is
corruptible clothes itself with incorruptibility, and this which is mortal
clothes itself with immortality, then the word that is written shall come
about: Death is swallowed up in victory. Where, 0 death, is your
victory? Where, 0 death, is your sting? The sting of death is sin, and
the power of sin is the law. But thanks be to God who gives us the victory
through our Lord Jesus Christ.
†
NT
NINE ~ 2 Corinthians 4:14 – 5:1
Brothers and sisters: Knowing that the One who raised the
Lord Jesus will raise us also with Jesus and place us with you in his
presence. Everything indeed is for you; so that the grace bestowed in
abundance on more and more people may cause the thanksgiving to overflow
for the glory of God.
Therefore, we are not discouraged; rather, although our
outer self is wasting away, our inner self is being renewed day by day.
For this momentary light affliction is producing for us an eternal weight
of glory beyond all comparison, as we look not to what is seen but to what
is unseen; for what is seen is transitory, but what is unseen is eternal.
For we know that if our earthly dwelling, a tent, should be
destroyed, we have a building from God, a dwelling not made with hands,
eternal in heaven.
†
NT TEN ~ 2 Corinthians 5:1, 6-10
Brothers and sisters: We know that if our earthly dwelling,
a tent, should be destroyed, we have a building from God, a dwelling not
made with hands, eternal in heaven.
We are always courageous, although we know that while we
are at home in the body we are away from the Lord, for we walk by faith,
not by sight. Yet we are courageous, and we would rather leave the body
and go home to the Lord. Therefore, we aspire to please him, whether we
are at home or away. For we must all appear before the judgment seat of
Christ, so that each may receive recompense, according to what he did in
the body, whether good or evil.
†
NT ELEVEN ~
Philippians 3:20-21
Brothers and sisters: Our citizenship is in heaven, and
from it we also await a savior, the Lord Jesus Christ. He will
change our lowly body to conform with his glorified Body by the power that
enables him also to bring all things into subjection to himself.
†
NT TWELVE ~ 1 Thessalonians
4:13-18
We do not want you to be unaware, brothers and sisters,
about those who have fallen asleep, so that you may not grieve like the
rest, who have no hope. For if we believe that Jesus died and rose, so too
will God, through Jesus, bring with him those who have fallen asleep.
Indeed, we tell you this, on the word of the Lord, that we who are alive,
who are left until the coming of the Lord, will surely not precede those
who have fallen asleep. For the Lord himself, with a word of command, with
the voice of an archangel and with the trumpet of God, will come down from
heaven, and the dead in Christ will rise first. Then we who are alive, who
are left, will be caught up together with them in the clouds to meet the
Lord in the air. Thus we shall always be with the
Lord.
Therefore, console one another with these words.
†
NT THIRTEEN ~ 2 Timothy 2:8-13
Beloved: Remember Jesus Christ, raised from the dead, a
descendent of David: such is my Gospel, for which I am suffering, even to
the point of chains, like a criminal.. But the word of God is not chained.
Therefore, I bear with everything for the sake of those who are chosen, so
that they too may obtain the salvation that is in Christ Jesus, together
with eternal glory. This saying is trustworthy:
If we have died with him we shall also live with him; if we
persevere we shall also reign with him. But if we deny him he will deny
us. If we are unfaithful he remains faithful, for he cannot deny himself.
NT FOURTEEN ~ l John 3:1-2
Beloved: See what love the Father has bestowed on us that
we maybe called the children of God. Yet so we are. The reason the world
does not know us is that it did not know him. Beloved, we are God’s
children now; what we shall be has not yet been revealed. We do know that
when it is revealed we shall be like him, for we shall see him as he is.
†
NT FIFTEEN ~ 1 John 3:14-16
Beloved: We know that we
have passed from death to life because we love our brothers. Whoever does
not love remains in death. Everyone who hates his brother is a murderer,
and you know that no murderer has eternal life remaining in him. The way
we came to know love was that he laid down his life for us; so we ought to
lay down our lives for our brothers.
†
Gospel
ONE Matthew 5:1-12a
When Jesus saw the crowds, he went up the mountain, and
after he had sat down, his disciples came to him. He began to teach them,
saying:
"Blessed are the poor in spirit, for theirs is the kingdom
of heaven. Blessed are they who mourn, for they will be comforted. Blessed
are the meek, for they will inherit the land. Blessed are they who hunger
and thirst for righteousness, for they will be satisfied. Blessed are the
merciful, for they will be shown mercy. Blessed are the clean of heart,
for they will see God. Blessed are the peacemakers, for they will be
called children of God. B1essed are they who are persecuted for the sake
of righteousness, for theirs is the kingdom of heaven. Blessed are you
when they insult you and persecute you and utter every kind of evil
against you falsely because of me. Rejoice and be glad, for your reward
will be great in heaven.”
†
Gospel TWO ~ Matthew 11:25-30
At that time Jesus answered: "I give praise to you, Father,
Lord of heaven and earth, for although you have hidden these things from
the wise and the learned you have revealed them to the childlike. Yes,
Father, such has been your gracious will. All things have been handed over
to me by my Father. No one knows the Son except the Father, and no one
knows the Father except the Son and anyone to whom the Son wishes to
reveal him.
Come to me, all you who labor and are burdened, and I will
give you rest. Take my yoke upon you and learn from me, for I am meek and
humble of heart; and you will find rest for yourselves. For my yoke is
easy, and my burden light.”
†
Gospel THREE
~ Matthew 25:1-13
Jesus told his disciples this parable:
"The Kingdom of heaven will be like ten virgins who took
their lamps and went out to meet the bridegroom. Five of them were foolish
and five were wise. The foolish ones, when taking their lamps, brought no
oil with them, but the wise brought flasks of oil with their lamps. Since
the bridegroom was long delayed, they all became drowsy and fell asleep.
At midnight, there was a cry, 'Behold; the bridegroom! Come out to meet
him!' Then all those virgins got up and trimmed their lamps. The foolish
ones said to the wise, 'Give us some of your oil, for our lamps are going
out.' But the wise ones replied, 'No, for there may not be enough for us
and you. Go instead to the merchants and buy some for yourselves.’ While
they went off to buy it, the bridegroom came and those who were ready went
into the wedding feast with him. Then the door was locked. Afterwards the
other virgins came and said, ‘Lord, Lord, open the door for us!’ But he
said in reply, ‘Amen, I say to you; I do not know you.' Therefore, stay
awake, for you know neither the day nor the hour.”
†
Gospel FOUR ~ Matthew 25:31-46
Jesus said to his disciples:
"When the Son of Man comes in his glory, and all the
angels with him, he will sit upon his glorious throne, and all the nations
will be assembled before him. And he will separate them one from another,
as a shepherd separates the sheep from the goats. He will place the sheep
on his right and the goats on his left. Then the king will say to those on
his right; 'Come, you who are blessed by my Father. Inherit the kingdom
prepared for you from the foundation of the world. For I was hungry and
you gave me food, I was thirsty and you gave me drink, a stranger and you
welcomed, me, naked and you clothed me, ill and you cared for me, in
prison and you visited me.' Then the righteous will answer him and say,
'Lord, when did we see you hungry and feed you, or thirsty and give
you drink? When did we see you a stranger and welcome you, or naked and
clothe you? When did we see you ill or in prison and visit you?' And the
king will say to them in reply, 'Amen, I say to you, whatever you did for
one of these least brothers of mine, you did for me.’
Then he will say to those on his left, 'Depart from me, you
accursed, into the eternal fire prepared for the Devil and his angels. For
I was hungry and you gave me no food, I was thirsty and you gave me no
drink, a stranger and you gave me no welcome, naked and you gave me no
clothing, ill and in prison, and you did not care for me.' Then they will
answer and say, ‘Lord, when did we see you hungry or thirsty or a stranger
or naked or ill or in prison, and not minister to your needs?’ He
will answer them, ‘Amen, I say to you, what you did not do for one of the
least ones, you did not do for me.' And these will go off to eternal
punishment, but the righteous to eternal life."
†
Gospel FIVE ~ Mark 15:33-39; 16:1-6
At noon darkness came over the whole land until three in
the afternoon. And at three o'clock Jesus cried out in a loud voice, "Eloi,
Eloi lema sabachthani?" which is translated, "My God, my God, why have
you forsaken me?" Some of the bystanders who heard it said, "Look, he is
calling Elijah." One of them ran, soaked a sponge with wine, put it on a
reed, and gave it to him to drink, saying, "Wait, let us see if Elijah
comes to take him down." Jesus gave a loud cry and breathed his1ast. The
veil of the sanctuary was torn in two from top to bottom. When the
centurion who stood facing him saw how he breathed his last he said,
“Truly this man was the Son of God!"
When the Sabbath was over, Mary Magdalene, Mary, the mother
of James, and Salome bought spices so that they might go and anoint him.
Very early when the sun had risen, on the first day of the week,
they came to the tomb. They were saying to one another, “Who will roll
back the stone for us from the entrance to the tomb?” When they looked
up, they saw that the stone had been rolled back; it was very large. On
entering the tomb they saw a young man sitting on the right side, clothed
in a white robe; and they were utterly amazed. He said to them, "Do
not be amazed! You seek Jesus of Nazareth, the crucified. He has been
raised; he is not here. Behold the place where they laid him."
†
Gospel SIX ~
Luke 7:11-17
Jesus journeyed to a city called Nain, and his disciples
and a large crowd accompanied him. As he drew near to the gate of the
city, a man who had died was being carried out, the only son of his
mother, and she was a widow. A large crowd from the city was with her.
When the Lord saw her, he was moved with pity for her and said to her, "Do
not weep." He stepped forward and touched the coffin; at this the, bearers
halted, and he said, "Young man, I tell you, arise!" The dead man sat up
and began to speak, and Jesus gave him to his mother. Fear seized them
all, and they glorified God, exclaiming, "A great prophet has arisen in
our midst," and "God has visited his people.” This report about him spread
through the whole of Judea and in all the surrounding region.
†
Gospel
SEVEN ~ Luke 12:35-40
Jesus said to his disciples: "Gird your loins and light
your lamps and be like servants who await their master's return from a
wedding, ready to open immediately when he comes, and knocks. Blessed are
those servants whom the master finds vigilant on his arrival. Amen, I say
to you he will gird himself, have them recline at table, and proceed to
wait on them. And should he come in the second or third watch; and find
them prepared in this way, blessed are those servants. Be sure of this: if
the master of the house had known the hour when the thief was coming, he
would not have let his house be broken into. You also must be prepared,
for at an hour you do not expect, the Son of Man will come."
†
Gospel
EIGHT ~ Luke 23:33, 39-43
When they came to the place called the Skull, they
crucified Jesus and the criminals there, one on his right, the other on
his left.
Now one of the criminals hanging there reviled Jesus,
saying "Are you not the Christ? Save yourself and us.” The other man,
however, rebuking him, said in reply, "Have you no fear of God, for you
are subject to the same condemnation? And indeed, we have been condemned
justly, for the sentence we received corresponds to our crimes, but this
man has done nothing criminal.” Then he said, “Jesus, remember me when you
come into your Kingdom." He replied to him, "Amen, I say to you, today you
will be with me in Paradise.”
†
Gospel
NINE ~ Luke 23:44-46, 50, 52-53; 24:1-6a
It was now about noon and darkness came over the whole land
until three in the afternoon because of an eclipse of the sun. Then the
veil of the temple was torn down the middle. Jesus cried out in a loud
voice, "Father, into your hands I commend my spirit”; and when he had said
this he breathed his last.
Now there was a virtuous and righteous man named Joseph
who, though he was a member of the council, went to Pilate and asked for
the Body of Jesus. After he had taken the Body down, he wrapped it in a
linen cloth and laid him in a rock- hewn tomb in which no one had yet been
buried.
At daybreak on the first day of the week the women took the
spices they had prepared and went to the tomb. They found the stone rolled
away from the tomb; but when they entered, they did not find the body of
the Lord Jesus. While they were puzzling over this, behold, two men in
dazzling garments appeared to them. They were terrified and bowed their
faces to the ground. They said to them, "Why do you seek the living one
among the dead? He is not here, but he has been raised."
†
Gospel
TEN ~ Luke 24:13-35
That very day, the first day of the week, two of the
disciples of Jesus were going to a village called Emmaus, seven miles from
Jerusalem, and they were conversing about all the things that had
occurred. And it happened that while they were conversing and debating,
Jesus himself drew near and walked with them, but their eyes were
prevented from recognizing him. He asked them, "What are you discussing as
you walk along?" They stopped, looking downcast. One of them, named
Cleopas, said to him in reply, "Are you the only visitor to Jerusalem who
does not know of the things that have taken place there in these days?”
And he replied to them, “What sort of things?” They said to him, “The
things that happened to Jesus the Nazarene, who was a prophet mighty in
deed and word before God and all the people, how our chief priests and
rulers both handed him over to a sentence of death and crucified him. But
we were hoping that he would be the one to redeem Israel; and besides all
this, it is now the third day since this took place. Some women from our
group, however, have astounded us: they were at the tomb early in the
morning and did not find his Body; and they came back and reported that
they had indeed seen a vision of angels who announced that he was
alive. Then some of those with us went to the tomb and found things just
as the women had described, but him they did not see.”
And he said to them, "Oh, how foolish you are! How slow of
heart to believe all that the prophets spoke! Was it not necessary that
the Christ should suffer these things and enter into his glory?” Then
beginning with Moses and all the prophets, Jesus interpreted to them what
referred to him in all the Scriptures. As they approached the village to
which they were going, Jesus gave the impression that he was going on
farther. But they urged him, “Stay with us, for it is nearly evening and
the day is almost over.” So he went in to stay with them.
And it happened that, while he was with them at table, he
took bread, said the blessing, broke it, and gave it to them. With that
their eyes were opened and they recognized him, but he vanished from their
sight. Then they said to each other, “Were not our hearts burning within
us while he spoke to us on the way and opened the scriptures to us?" So
they set out at once and returned to Jerusalem where they found gathered
together the Eleven and those with them, who were saying, “The Lord has
truly been raised and has appeared to Simon!" Then the two recounted what
had taken place on the way and how he was made known to them in the
breaking of bread.
†
Gospel
ELEVEN ~ John 5:24-29
Jesus answered the Jews and said to
them:
“Amen, amen, I say to you, whoever hears my word and
believes in the one who has sent me has eternal life and will not come to
condemnation, but has passed from death to life. Amen, amen, I say to you,
the hour is coming and is now here when the dead will hear the voice of
the Son of God, and those who hear will live. For just as the Father has
life in himself, so also he gave to the Son the possession of life in
himself. And he gave him power to exercise judgment, because he is the Son
of Man. Do not be amazed at this, because the hour is coming in which all
who are in the tombs will hear his voice and will come out, those who have
done good deeds to the resurrection of life, but those who have done
wicked deeds to the resurrection of condemnation.
†
Gospel TWELVE ~ John 6:37-40
Jesus said to the crowds:
"Everything that the Father gives me will come to me, and I
will not reject anyone who comes to me, because I came down from heaven
not to do my own will but the will of the one who sent me. And this is
the will of the one who sent me, that I should not lose anything of what
he gave me, but that I should raise it on the last day. For this is the
will of my Father, that everyone who sees the Son and believes in him may
have eternal life, and I shall raise him on the last day.”
†
Gospel THIRTEEN ~ John 6:51-59
Jesus said
to the crowds:
"I am the living bread that came down from heaven; whoever
eats this bread will live forever; and the bread that I will give is my
Flesh for the life of the world.”
The Jews quarreled among themselves, saying "How can this
man give us his flesh to eat?” Jesus said to them, “Amen, amen, I say to
you, unless you eat the flesh of the Son of Man and drink his
blood, you do not have life within you. Whoever eats my flesh and drinks
my blood has eternal life, and I will raise him on the last day. For my
flesh is true food, and my blood is true drink. Whoever eats my flesh and
drinks my blood remains in me and I in him. Just as the living Father sent
me and I have life because of the Father, so also the one who feeds on me
will have life because of me. This is the bread that came down from
heaven. Unlike your ancestors who ate and still died, whoever eats this
bread will live forever."
†
Gospel
FOURTEEN ~ John 11:17-27
When Jesus arrived in Bethany he found that Lazarus had
already been in the tomb for four days. Now Bethany was near Jerusalem,
only about two miles away. Many of the Jews had come to Martha and Mary to
comfort them about their brother. When Martha heard that Jesus was coming,
she went to meet him; but Mary sat at home. Martha said to Jesus, “Lord if
you had been here, my brother would not have died. But even now I know
that whatever you ask of God, God will give you.” Jesus said to her, “Your
brother will rise.” Martha said to him, “I know that he will rise, in the
resurrection on the last day.” Jesus told her, “I am the resurrection and
the life; whoever believes in me, even if he dies, will live, and everyone
who lives and believes in me will never die. Do you believe this? “Yes,
Lord. I have come to believe that you are the Christ, the Son of God, the
one who is coming into the world.”
†
Gospel
FIFTEEN ~ John 11:32-45
When Mary came to where Jesus was and saw him, she fell at
his feet and said to him "Lord, if you had been here, my brother would not
have died.” When Jesus saw her weeping and the Jews who had come with her
weeping, he became perturbed and deeply troubled, and said, “Where have
you laid him?” They said to him, “Sir, come and see.” And Jesus wept. So
the Jews, said "See how he loved him." But some of them said, "Could not
the one who opened the eyes of the blind man have done something so that
this man would not have died?"
So Jesus, perturbed again, came to the tomb. It was a cave,
and a stone lay across it. Jesus said, "Take away the stone." Martha, the
dead man's sister, said to him, "Lord, by now there will be a stench; he
has been dead for four days." Jesus said to her, "Did I not tell you that
if you believe you will see the glory of God?" So they took away the
stone. And Jesus raised his eyes and said, "Father, I thank you for
hearing me. I know that you always hear me; but because of the crowd here
I have said this, that they may believe that you have sent me.” And when
he had said this, he cried out in a loud voice, “Lazarus, come out!” The
dead man came out, tied hand and foot with burial bands, and his face was
wrapped in a cloth. So Jesus said to crowd, “Untie him and let him go.”
Now many of the Jews who had come to Mary and seen what he
had done began to believe in him.
†
Gospel
SIXTEEN ~ John 12:23-28
Jesus told
his disciples: “The hour has come for the Son of Man to be glorified.
Amen, amen, I say to you, unless a grain of wheat falls to the ground and
dies, it remains just a grain of wheat; but if it dies, it produces much
fruit. Whoever loves his life will lose it, and whoever hates his life in
this world will preserve it for eternal life. Whoever serves me must
follow me, and where I am, there also will my servant be. The Father will
honor whoever serves me.” “I am troubled now. Yet what should I say?
‘Father save me from this hour’? But it was for this purpose that I came
to this hour. Father, glorify your name.” Then a voice came from heaven,
“I have glorified it and will glorify it again.”
Gospel
SEVENTEEN ~ John 14:1-6
Jesus said
to his disciples: "Do not let your hearts be troubled. You have faith in
God; have faith also in me. In my Father's house there are many dwelling
places. If there were not, would I have told you that I am going to
prepare a place for you? And if I go and prepare a place for you, I will
come back again and take you to myself, so that where I am you may also
be. Where I am going you know the way.” Thomas said to him, “Master, we do
not know where you are going; how can we know the way?” Jesus said to him,
“I am the way and the truth and the life. No one comes to the Father
except through me.”
†
Gospel EIGHTEEN John 17:24-26
Jesus
raised his eyes to heaven and said:
"Father, those whom you gave me are your gift to me. I wish
that where I am they also may be with me, that they may see my glory that
you gave me, because you loved me before the foundation of the world.
Righteous Father, the world also does not know you, but I know you, and
they know that you sent me. I made known to them your name and I will make
it known, that the love with which you loved me may be in them and I in
them.”
GS
NINETEEN--John 19:17-18, 25-39
So they took Jesus, and, carrying the cross himself, he went
out to what is called the Place of the Skull, in Hebrew, Golgotha. There
they crucified him, and with him two others, one on either side, with Jesus
in the middle.
Standing by the cross of Jesus were his mother and his
mother's sister, Mary the wife of Clopas, and Mary of Magdala. When Jesus
saw his mother and the disciple there whom he loved, he said to his mother,
"Woman, behold, your son." Then he said to the disciple, "Behold, your
mother." And from that hour the disciple took her into his home.
After this, aware that everything was now finished, in order
that the Scripture might be fulfilled, Jesus said, "I thirst." There was a
vessel filled with common wine. So they put a sponge soaked in wine on a
sprig of hyssop and put it up to his mouth. When Jesus had taken the wine,
he said, "It is finished." And bowing his head, he handed over the Spirit.
Now since it was preparation day, in order that the bodies
might not remain on the cross on the Sabbath, for the Sabbath day of that
week was a solemn one, the Jews asked Pilate that their legs be broken and
they be taken down. So the soldiers came and broke the legs of the first and
then of the other one who was crucified with Jesus. But when they came to
Jesus and saw that he was already dead, they did not break his legs, but one
soldier thrust his lance into his side, and immediately blood and water
flowed out. An eyewitness has testified, and his testimony is true; he knows
that he is speaking the truth, so that you also may come to believe. For
this happened so that the Scripture passage might be fulfilled: Not a bone
of it will be broken. And again another passage says: They will look upon
him whom they have pierced.
After this, Joseph of Arimathea, secretly a disciple of Jesus
for fear of the Jews, asked Pilate if he could remove the body of Jesus. And
Pilate permitted it. So he came and took his body. Nicodemus, the one who
had first come to him at night, also came bringing a mixture of myrrh and
aloes weighing about one hundred pounds.
†
Scripture readings are taken from: The New American
Bible with Revised New Testament. © 1986, Confraternity of Christian
Doctrine, Washington, DC. Revised 12/06
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